mooling+birdbird10:51 PM

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mooling+birdbird11:20 AM

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Can you spot a man?


mooling+birdbird7:33 PM

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Real life super mario! Very funny!!!hahaha....



mooling+birdbird11:16 PM

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Happy Valentines Day To All My Friends!!!
Miss u all a lots too!

Sorry for the lack of update. I'm becoming more n more lazy to update.

The purpose of me blogger now is to apologise to u all especially:
Carina, Hui Min, Audrey, Yen Yong, Qizhen and Liyun
for not able to meet u all up as offen as it used to be. I'm really wanted to meet u all wheneven u all ask to meet up. But due to some reason i'm not able to meet most of the time which i'm hard to explain. Hope u all understand..Is really not what u all may think "Got boyfriend don want friends".

I used to think the same b4 a relationship. But now, is a different ball game. U r not living in ur own world, have to think of ur partner. He sarcficed a lot of time for me. Giving the best he could, little surprise...etc. But I'm alway very childish. Get angrey and face black black very easily. He always speak to me nicely and wanted me to change and be a adult not a children. Only children will act like this thats what he alway told me. I always fail to do so and don get the meaning. Why? The more he treat me nicely the more guitly i'm. I have to admit i cry a lot for him. Sometime my mind popped out this question after my childish act: " I'm not good enough to make him treat me so good." I really get disappointed of myself, i really don blame him when time i irritated him n he had to raise his voice. In a relationship, i truely believe give and take. I guess is COMMITMENT?




mooling+birdbird9:12 PM

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The Six Basic Styles of Loving
by
Marcia Laswell and Norman H. Lobsenz

The Love Scale Questionnaire is based on analysis of the responses of thousands of men and women. It will help you determine your basic style of loving : best friend, romantic, logical, game-playing, unselfish or possessive.
Of course, no single test can presume to offer a definitive verdict about any aspect of human nature. Your score on the questionnaire should not be taken as an infallible result, although it will be highly indicative of your main attitude and preference.

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Score Sheet

Copy this down on a piece of paper

A
2
5
8
21
29
32
36
37
50

B
1
7
17
20
23
35
38
42
43

C
4
9
16
27
28
31
47
49

D
6
14
15
26
33
34
45
46

E
12
13
19
24
30
40
44
48

F
3
10
11
18
22
25
39
41


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LOVE SCALE QUESTIONNAIRE

Read each statement below and decide if you mainly agree or mainly disagree with it. If you mainly agree, circle the number on your score sheet that corresponds with the question number. If you mainly don't agree, go on to the next statement without marking anything. There is no provision for answers like "sometimes" - if "sometimes" is your first reaction, decide whether it's true more or less than half the time.


1. I believe that love at first sight is possible.
2. I did not realize I was in love until I actually had been in love for some time.
3. When things aren’t going right for us my stomach gets upset.
4. From a practical point of view I must consider what a person is going to become in life before I commit myself to loving him or her.
5. You cannot have love unless you have first had caring for awhile.
6. It’s always a good idea to keep your lover a little uncertain about how committed you are to him/her.
7. The first time we kissed I felt a definite genital response (erection, lubrication).
8. I still have good friendships with almost everyone with whom I have ever been involved in a relationship.
9. It makes good sense to plan your life carefully before you choose a lover.
10. When my relationships break up I get so depressed I have even thought of suicide.
11. Sometimes I get so excited about being in love I can’t sleep.
12. I try to use my own strength to help my lover through difficult times, even when he/she is behaving foolishly.
13. I would rather suffer than have my lover suffer.
14. Part of the fun of being in love is the challenge of keeping it going and getting my way at the same time.
15. As far as my lover goes, what he/she doesn’t know won’t hurt him/her.
16. It’s best to love someone with a similar background.
17. We kissed soon after we met because we both wanted to.
18. When my lover doesn’t pay attention to me I feel sick all over.
19. I cannot be happy unless I place my lover’s happiness before my own.
20. Usually the first thing that attracts me to someone is his/her physical appearance.
21. The best kind of love grows out of a long friendship.
22. When I am in love I have trouble concentrating on anything else.
23. At the first touch of his/her hand I knew love was a real possibility.
24. When I break up with someone I go out of my way to see that he/she is OK.
25. I cannot relax if I suspect he/she is with someone else.
26. At least once I have had to plan carefully to keep two of my lovers from finding out about each other.
27. I can get over relationships pretty easily and quickly.
28. A main consideration in choosing a lover is how she/he makes my family look.
29. The best part of love is living together, making a home together, and raising children together.
30. I am usually willing to sacrifice my own wishes in order to let my lover have hers/his.
31. A main consideration in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she will be a good parent.
32. Kissing, foreplay and sex shouldn’t be rushed. They will happen naturally when one’s intimacy has grown enough.
33. I enjoy flirting with attractive people.
34. My lover would get upset if she/he knew some of the things I do with other people.
35. I had a pretty clear picture of what my true love would be like before I ever fell in love.
36. If my lover had a baby from a previous relationship I would want to raise it, love it and care for it as if it were my own.
37. It is hard to say exactly when we fell in love.
38. I couldn’t really love anyone I was not willing to marry.
39. Even though I don’t want to be jealous, I can’t help it when he/she pays attention to someone else.
40. I would rather break up than stand in his/her way.
41. I like the idea of having the same kinds of clothes, hats, plants, car, bicycles, etc., as my lover does.
42. I wouldn’t date anyone I wouldn’t want to fall in love with.
43. At least once when I thought a relationship was over I saw him/her again and all the old feelings came back.
44. Whatever I own is my lover’s to use as he/she chooses.
45. If my lover ignores me for awhile, I sometimes do really stupid things to try to get his/her attention back.
46. It would be fun to see if I could get someone to go out with me even if I didn’t want to get involved with that person.
47. A main consideration in choosing a partner is how she or he will make me look to a boss or people at my work.
48. When my lover doesn’t see me or call for awhile I assume he/she has a good reason.
49. Before getting very involved with anyone I try to figure out how compatible his/her background is with mine in case we ever have children.
50. The best love relationships are the ones that last the longest.

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Ok… you’ve circled the ones that are true for you in their respective columns right? Tally up the number of times you circled a number in each column and write that number at the bottom of your paper. The column(s) with the highest amount of circled numbers is your style of loving.

A: Friendly Love
B: Romantic Love
C: Logical Love
D: Playful Love
E: Unselfish Love
F: Possessive Love

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Definitions!

A (Friendly Love)
This is the kind of love you might feel for a favorite brother or sister. There is a thin line between liking and friendly love that is more a matter of degree than a question of substance. Couples start out as friends and gradually discover they are in love. Even if such a couple separates, they often remain good friends.

B (Romantic Love)
People in romantic love idealize their partners. They speak in rapturous terms of her or his hair, skin, eyes, body proportions, and mannerisms. They remember the moment they met and want to know everything there is to know about the other person. They treasure each detail usually romantic love burns with a pure, hot flame for a while, but then dies. Occasionally, it evolves into a long-lasting, durable love. If a person is able to accept the real person who emerges in time, earlier romantic feelings may occasionally be stirred up even after the couple has been married for many years.

C (Logical Love)
People who emphasize this kind of love operate on the basis of the fair exchange theory. They take a practical approach to love. One man explains, “I’m not handsome or rich, so I can’t expect to attract a millionaire’s daughter, but I am hard-working and ambitious. I’ll find someone who appreciates these things.” Logical lovers look for partners whose backgrounds, education, interests, religion, and outlook are compatible. Computer dating is based on this philosophy. Once a choice is made, more intense feelings may develop.

D (Playful Love)
The idea behind this style of love is that love is a game, and is only pleasurable if one does not get too deeply involved. Commitment is avoided. The playful lover does not let anyone get too close. He or she may enjoy keeping several partners on the hook. Honesty and self-disclosure are avoided.

E (Unselfish Love)
The main characteristics of this type of love are patience, kindness, and unconditional giving. Unselfish love does not look for rewards or for returns on emotional investments. People who espouse this kind of love feel they have a duty to care about others, whether or not these persons deserve their love or reciprocate in kind. All great religions share this belief about love to some extent. Many experts say that every good relationship has some degree of unselfish love.

F (Possessive Love)
Its symptoms are agitation, sleeplessness, fever, loss of appetite, heartache, and emotions that alternate between ecstasy and despair. Every sign of attention brings relief. Every hint of disinterest brings pain. Here is a comment from a young woman who recently ended such a relationship: “He resented my talking to anyone else, even the mailman! He talked me into quitting the school newspaper staff which I loved because he said it took too much time away from our being together. He said we didn’t need anyone else as long as we had each other. After a while, I did.”

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Most people do not have one exclusive style of loving. A logical lover can at times be playful, unselfish, or romantic. But most people come to prefer one style over the others. Sociologist John Lee says that “The way to have a mutually satisfying love… is to find a partner who shares the same approach to loving, the same definition of love.”

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credit to:its_IOwnA@soompi

mooling+birdbird12:10 PM

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Sorry guys,really long time never update my blog le...

Just post some of my Sega Prize Collection Soft toy here:
Btw, if u pass by Plaze Singapure(or Bugis, Suntic City), u may find me at the arcade hehe!!!

























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